Private app for real relationship life

Know what matters. Know what to do next.

Butters gives couples one calm place to notice what happened, see what matters today, and follow through without making private life performative.

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One useful home screen
Private by default
Gifts, vouchers, and memories together

Mission

One grounded next step for today

Reminder

Important dates before they turn into stress

Memory

A shared story that stays private and useful

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Usability

Home shows score, mission, reminders, and partner context together.

Intimacy

Real moments become calmer next steps instead of heavier conflict.

Follow-through

Gift ideas, vouchers, and memories turn care into something you keep.

Notice sooner

See your rhythm, reminders, and shared context in one home screen.

Act with less friction

Get one grounded next step instead of vague advice or mental load.

Keep the good stuff

Rewards, gift ideas, and memories stay in one private place for two.

How it works

Three moves that make care easier to act on.

Log what actually happened

A quick moment, a rating, or a note tells Butters what real life looked like.

Get one useful next step

The app turns those signals into a mission, reminder, or nudge specific enough to use today.

Follow through and keep your story together

Reminders, gifts, rewards, albums, and partner details help care feel lived in instead of accidental.

Real life

Built for ordinary days, not perfect speeches.

The best version of Butters is quiet: a small save here, a reminder there, a better follow-through later.

After a miss

Log the moment honestly

A missed hug, a warm talk, or an apology gives the app better context for what comes next.

During the week

See one mission worth doing

Instead of generic advice, you get one grounded suggestion that fits your current rhythm.

Before a date matters

Catch the important thing early

Birthdays, anniversaries, gift ideas, and vouchers show up before they become a scramble.

Inside the app

Clear tools for staying close, not a wall of advice.

A Home screen that tells you where to act

Score, mission, reminders, moments, and partner context live in one place so action feels easy.

A partner view that makes care easier

Likes, dates, rewards, and shared context stay close when you need them.

Missions that feel useful

Suggestions stay small enough for real life and specific enough to use today.

Reminders that can open gift ideas

Important dates can lead straight into guided gift ideas, so thoughtfulness is easier to execute.

Private by design

Built for the two people inside it. No public feed, no performance, no ad-network energy.

Pricing

Start with the full experience, then keep what fits.

Most couples start with the full beta first, then decide how much of the shared space they want to keep open.

Invite-only beta 30 days free $7.99/month per couple after beta

Invite-only beta

Starts here

Trial

30 days free

Full Pro package during the beta month.

10 albums
30 photos per album
20 moments per week
Unlimited wall history
Gift recommendations and vouchers included

The current flow begins here before any paid step happens.

Privacy

Private by default, not as an afterthought.

Protected data

Relationship data is treated as sensitive by design, with authenticated access and protected storage.

Intentional sharing

Shared features are for you and your partner, not for an audience or ad network.

Support that stays human

Questions, privacy requests, and support messages go to a real inbox: support@buttersapp.com.

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Ready when you are

Open Butters and make care easier to act on.

The app is live at app.buttersapp.com. Start with one real moment and one useful next step.

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