Private relationship app

Stronger daily habits. More meaningful moments.

Butters is a private app for couples. It helps you track real moments, see gentle daily guidance, remember important dates, and build a better sense of each other over time.

  • Private by default, not built for an audience
  • Daily missions that feel specific and warm
  • Shared rituals, memories, and partner awareness in one place

Relationship rhythm

A calmer way to stay close without turning care into homework.

Built for two

Shared moments, thoughtful prompts, and a space that belongs to both of you.

Privacy first

Sensitive relationship data stays private, intentional, and yours.

What Butters actually does

One private place for the everyday side of a relationship.

Daily home dashboard

See your connection rhythm, today's mission, recent moments, and partner shortcuts in one place instead of bouncing between notes, chat, and memory.

Real reminders

Birthdays, anniversaries, and special dates surface at the right time so they do not sneak up on you.

Shared memories

Keep moments, albums, notes, and private relationship content in a space built just for the two of you.

How it works

Three simple moves that compound over time.

01

Start with what real life feels like

Capture moments, moods, and signals so the app can respond to your relationship as it actually feels, not as a generic template.

02

Get one grounded nudge

Butters gives you a calm, specific suggestion for today instead of flooding you with generic advice.

03

Build closeness in layers

Shared walls, memories, reminders, and rituals help connection feel lived-in instead of one-off.

Inside the app

Clear tools for staying connected, not vague “relationship advice.”

A private relationship space

No public feed. No awkward audience. No relationship turned into content. Butters is built for the two people inside it.

Daily missions

Suggestions are framed to be useful in the middle of real life, not idealized life.

Smart reminders

Butters surfaces birthdays, anniversaries, and special days on Home so important moments feel remembered, not rescued at the last minute.

Vouchers and rewards

Redeemable couple vouchers turn good rhythms into something fun and tangible, like a shared reward you actually use together.

Shared memories that stay warm

Keep moments, notes, and media in one intimate place instead of scattering them across apps.

Partner-aware suggestions

Butters helps you notice what matters to the other person instead of centering only your own score.

A softer way to improve

The goal is not to “win” your relationship. The goal is to feel more understood, more steady, and more in sync.

Reminders and vouchers

Not just notes. Actionable nudges and shared rewards.

Upcoming dates become useful prompts

When a birthday, anniversary, or special day is coming, Butters shows reminders on Home and can open context-aware gift ideas instead of leaving you with a vague memory that “something is soon.”

Gift ideas from reminders

Some reminders open directly into guided gift suggestions so planning feels lighter and faster.

Voucher rewards

The partner area can hold vouchers you redeem together as playful couple rewards, not generic discounts or ads.

Pricing

Simple plans for the beta and beyond.

Start with the full 30-day beta, keep a lighter shared space for free, or stay on Pro for the full Butters experience.

Invite-only beta 30 days free $7.99/month per couple after beta

Invite-only beta

Starts here

Trial

30 days free

Full Pro package during the beta month.

  • 10 albums
  • 30 photos per album
  • 20 moments per week
  • Unlimited wall history
  • Gift recommendations and vouchers included

The current flow begins here before any paid step happens.

Keeps the basics

Light

Free

$0

A lighter shared space

  • 2 albums
  • 10 photos per album
  • 1 moment image per day
  • 30 days of wall history
  • Gift recommendations and vouchers locked

Keeps the relationship space alive with tighter limits.

Paid plan

Full package

Pro

$7.99 / couple / month

Full package

  • 10 albums
  • 30 photos per album
  • 20 moments per week
  • Unlimited wall history
  • Gift recommendations and vouchers included

Best if you want all reminders, vouchers, memories, and shared history fully open.

Privacy

Private by default, not as an afterthought.

Protected data

Relationship data is treated as sensitive by design, with authenticated access and locked-down storage flows.

Intentional sharing

Shared features are for you and your partner, not for an algorithm, audience, or ad network.

Support that stays human

Questions, privacy requests, and support messages go to a real inbox: support@buttersapp.com.

Ready when you are

Open Butters and start with one better day.

The app is live at app.buttersapp.com. Start private. Start small. Start with the kind of care that actually survives daily life.